In search of LOVE~*

I find this very interesting.... and touching as well...

Sometimes, in our relentless efforts to
find the person we LoVe,
we fail to recognize & appreciate the
people who LoVe us.

We miss out on so many beautiful things
& simply because
we allow ourselves to been slaved by
our own selfish concerns.

Go for the man of deeds & not for the
man of words
for you will find rewarding happiness
Not with the man you LoVe
but the man who LoVes you more.

The best LoVers are those who are
capable of
LoVing from a distance,
far enough to allow the other person to
grow,
but never too far to feel the LoVe deep
within your being.

To let go of someone doesn't mean you
have to stop LoVing,
it only means that you allow that
person to find his own happiness
without expecting him to come back.

Letting go is not just setting the
other person free,
but it is also setting yourself free
from all bitterness, hatred, & anger
that keep in your heart.

Do not let the bitterness rare away
your strength & weaken your faith &
never allow pain to dishearten you,
but rather let you grow with wisdom in
bearing it.

You may found peace in just LoVing
someone from a distance not expecting
anything in return.

But be careful, for this can sustain
life but can never give enough room for
us to grow.

We can all survive with just beautiful
memories of the past but real peace &
happiness come only with open
acceptance of what reality is today.

There comes a time in our lives when we
chance upon someone so nice & beautiful
and we just find ourselves getting so
intensely attracted to that person.

This feeling soon become a part of our
everyday lives & eventually consumes
our thoughts & actions...

The sad part of it is when we begin to
realize that this person feels nothing
more for us than just a friendship.

We start our desperate attempt to get
noticed & be closer but in the end our
efforts are still unrewarded & we end
up being sorry for ourselves.

You don't have to forget someone you
LoVe.
What you need to learn is how to accept
the verdict of reality without being
bitter or sorry for yourself.

Believe me; you would be better off
giving that dedication & LoVe to
someone more deserving.

Don't let your heart run your life, be
sensible & let your mind speak for
itself.

Listen not only to your feelings but to
reason as well.

Always remember that if you lose
someone today,
it means that someone better is coming
tomorrow:

If you lose LoVe that doesn't mean that
you failed in LoVe.

Cry, if you have to, but make it sure
that the tears wash away the hurt & the
bitterness that the past has left with
you.

Let go of yesterday & LoVe will find
its way back to you & when it does,
pray that it may be the LoVe that will
stay & last a lifetime.

Sigh!
I am still learning...